Sarah Baker and I

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Day 6

Helping me address Societies idealism’s concerning traditional relationships between a man and woman, A man who lives in Tokyo by the name Sal9000  (refuses to release his birth name) married a videogame character Nene Anegasaki  in the Nintendo DS game called “Love Plus.”

At the wedding Sal wore a white tux, while a real priest performed the ceremony  in front of some friends and thousands of Web users watching online.

when asked about whether he can love an electronic device Sal replied ”I love this character, not a machine. I understand 100 percent that this is a game. I understand very well that I cannot marry her physically or legally.” 

From my understanding this is a perfect example of how divers human society is becoming. I do think that people will disagree with the marriage of a human and a virtual character, but that doesn’t prevent Sal from his human rights, and in the end he is able to marry the person he loves. 

Another extreme case involved a man named Chadil Deffy, also known as Deff Yingyuen, who held a wedding ceremony with his dead girlfriend Sarinya “Anne” Kamsook at her funeral service.  The couple had been together for 10 years and had apparently been speaking of marriage increasingly up until Sarinya was involved in a major car accident which took her life

I Read at http://www.inquisitr.com/185642/thai-man-marries-his-dead-girlfriend-at-her-funeral/#gYpQFuOrdzLwYBli.99

What interested me about this case was that, firstly, it was a case where a man was technically marrying someone who was no longer alive. And as harsh as this question sounds, what is the difference between a non - living person and a non - living object?

In both of the cases above marriage, an extremely traditional ceremony, unionised a couple where one of the partners was technically lifeless. How do people look at these men? and is their role is society affected by their actions? 

on the article about the chap marrying his dead lover, these were some of the replies 

  • “dat is love…n nothink creepy about it…caz most men only commit 2 a woman because of sex…but tiz man really love his girlfriend n commit 2 her even thought she’s gone…n I really 2 admire him keeping his word…my condolences <tears>”
  • “I think its sad and weird/creepy at the sametime just my opinion”
  • “Really romantic….”
so there were mixed feelings. Some people viewed him as a creep, while others viewed him as a romantic. Perhapes the way that people view these kind of cases is dramatically influenced by their own encounters relating to relationships. A girl who had two gay fathers may be more open to a more modern view on relationships as opposed to an afrikaans girl who grew up in a small christian town. To summaries, weather people agree with it or not, there are still traditional elements of relationships between males and females that have a firm place in society,such as marriage. But there are also elements that people that people have adapted, such as People who marry their computer games and dead girlfriends. I for one certainly feel a lot less guilty for walking around with sarah, thats for sure